Gratitude

Gratitude

Rethinking “Gratitude” – Is It Still Just About Being Thankful? The Hidden Baggage of the Word “Gratitude” We hear about gratitude everywhere: “Just be grateful.” “Gratitude changes everything.” “Practice gratitude daily.” And while well-meaning, these messages can...
Leadership

Leadership

Rethinking “Leadership” – Is It Still About Being in Charge? The Hidden Baggage of the Word “Leadership” Leadership is often framed as something big, bold, and far away: “She’s a powerful leader.” “He runs the company.” “Leadership skills = management skills.” But in...
Self-Made

Self-Made

Rethinking “Self-Made” – Is It Still About Solo Struggle and Personal Glory? The Hidden Baggage of the Term “Self-Made” “Self-made” is worn like a badge of honor. “He’s a self-made millionaire.” “She built it all herself.” “No one helped me—I’m self-made.” It sounds...
Humility

Humility

Rethinking “Humility” – Is It Still About Shrinking Yourself to Stay Likeable?   The Hidden Baggage of the Word “Humility” Humility is often praised as a virtue. “Stay humble.” “Be humble in victory.” “Don’t brag—humble yourself.” But beneath the praise, the word...
Confidence

Confidence

Rethinking “Confidence” – Is It Still About Being Loud, Sure, or Right? The Hidden Baggage of the Word “Confidence” We often admire confident people. We’re told to build confidence. To fake it. To show it. To own the room. But there’s a problem underneath all the...
Ego

Ego

Rethinking “Ego” – Is It Still About Arrogance and Self-Importance? The Hidden Baggage of the Word “Ego” “Ego” gets thrown around a lot—as something to avoid, battle, or crush. “That’s just your ego talking.” “Let go of your ego.” “He has a huge ego.” In many circles,...